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I didn't know Kevin, but from all of the touching
stories on this website, I feel like I did. I'm so sorry for your
tragic loss, but I hope that you can take some solace in the fact
that you really are keeping Kevin's memory alive for those of us
who weren't fortunate enough to have enjoyed his company.
Anonymous
2006-02-23
Ok, so I've known about (and been to) this website for quite
a while now. I almost didn't want to say anything because
I didn't know Kevin half as well as everyone else. But
I did spend the better part of a year around him and I
only wish I'd gotten to know him better. It's very true,
he's impossible to forget even if you hardly knew him.
My heart goes out to everyone who was close to him.
Jenn Magro
jennymag1182@aol.com2006-02-08
Sirius radio has this really awesome Bruce Springsteen & the
E Street Band channel that plays all sorts of rare and live stuff.
Kev would have loved it
Bill
2006-01-07
Miss you buddy, would love to know your thoughts on stuff
these days.
Jim
2006-01-04
i miss you
Corey
2005-12-10
hi i didnt know kevin but from wat i read he sounds like a
person that didnt deserve to be taken from the world so soon
and its tradegy he had to die
random
2005-10-27
Happy Birthday Kevin!! Another year has passed and it still
feels like yesterday. love and miss you forever
Colleen
2005-09-29
Happy birthday, kev. miss you, as I always will...xoxxobitexoxo
Corey
corey127@msn.com
http://myspace
2005-09-29
Without you here there is less to say I don't want you thinking
I'm unhappy What is closer to the truth That if I lived till
I was 102 I just don't think I'll ever get over you
jolene
2005-08-15
I miss you
Colleen
2005-08-02
saw weezer last night - thought of you. the last time i had
gone to the electric factory we went and saw saves the
day.. i remember i lost you for a bit and then i saw you
jumping around right in the front all sweaty and happy.
concerts with you were always the best.
jolene
2005-05-11
miss you...
Corey
2005-05-08
guys, i'm so anxious about getting this next batch of songs
released. I hope that you will all find solice in the music
and words. I've been putting everything that I am into it.
A good majority will be parallel to what i'm sure all of you
have been going through. Keep in touch. :)
chuck - last time for the night
admin@thedefog.com2005-05-02
no not a burning comfort. That's not comfortable at all. The
clap is no fun.
chuck
2005-05-02
I have a bunch of pictures of Kevin in a frame on my wall...
And whenever I start to question myself about anything, it
really
brings a warming comfort to me. Bernie and Franks 4ever.
chuck
2005-05-02
To add to jim's comment: I happened to come across america's
funniest home videos tonight on the tele. You know at the
end of each taping, he left the studio, got into his car, and
just screamed "MOTHER
FUCKER!!!"
charliecat
2005-05-02
I saw some thing on tv the other day about Bob
Saget and it reminded me of how much Kevin loved
how dirty his real humor was. He liked Saget and
would jump to defend his otherwise clean-cut image
saying "no he's a really cool guy!"
Jim
jim@kevinjgoodwin.com2005-05-01
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jim's ass cousin
asscousin@cushions.com
http://www.asscousin.com
2005-04-18
may thy beer malt grate upon the ancient soil that is your
resting place
el hombre
secretbeer@gardenplus.com2005-04-18
hope you enjoyed the colt 45 buddy. we miss you
Bill
2005-04-14
One year later and still just as hard. At the same time,
I am so blessed to have known someone that would have this
affect on my life, as I know he did others. The last time
I saw Kev I dropped him off and he gave me one of his crazy
smiles as he got out of my car. I couldn't ask for a better
way to say goodbye, for now. Love you always Kevo, never
forget
Cathy
ctoscano519@hotmail.com2005-04-13
The sun is shining and I know it's because Kev is smiling down
on all of us. I feel so proud to have known him and to
have him showing us everyday how he cares and misses us... love
you and miss you so much kev.
Leann
Leannski44@aol.com2005-04-13
what a difference a year makes. last year at this time
i remember it raining for days and not stopping. i remember
the weather being as bleak as we all felt. i hope kevin is
smiling on us today; proud of us for carrying him with us
everyday... remembering and loving him.. feeling blessed
for every beautiful spring day.
jolene
2005-04-13
A year since I changed, since my life shattered. No, be positive-Kevin
himself changed me. How lucky I am to have known him, to
have loved him and to have him love me in return! Sure Im sad,
but who isnt? But, if you havea true connection with someone,
whether its love or friendship, its always there. Kev, I miss
you, love u always xoxbitexoxox
Corey
corey127@msn.com2005-04-13
love you always.
jolene
2005-04-12
Who's up for getting together next Wednesday? I can't believe
it's been a year. Call or e-mail me if you wanna get together
732.977.8530
Bill
billpavlou@yahoo.com2005-04-05
I listened to "Solo Cell" so many times today. It's getting
harder each day it gets closer to a year.
Bill
2005-03-29
Talk is cheap, but giant moths rule the world.
giant moth
mothra@gozillanet.com
http://www.thedefog.com
2005-03-03
El Hombre Says "Don't Use Drugs" but in Spanish.
El Hombre
elhombre@tropicala.com
http://www.thedefog.com
2005-03-03
Kev knowing you in HS was a great gift from
GOD to all at LHS..I remember we used to mess
around in class and play Zelda on the TI's..
I'll keep u and the ones that love u in my
prayers.. never forget
Andrew Ramirez
andrewramirezbme@aol.com2005-02-22
Went to the AMC in Deptford last night. The screen came up
and said "Silence is Golden" I remember seeing a movie
with Kev there and when that came up he just screamed, "Talk
is cheap mother fucker!" That made me smile last night,
anyone else remember that?
Bill
2005-02-19
Lot of dreams about Kev lately. Sometimes
good, sometimes not. They come and go. Sometimes
are so real, it hurts. Think about you every
day. I still love you, miss you so much...
Corey
2005-02-17
Miss you more each day...
Cathy
2005-01-19
The hardest moments aren't the sad ones, but the happy ones
because Kevin's not there to share them with. Wish
you were here.
Colleen
2005-01-15
oh yeah, btw, every morning i think of kevin when i get
up. for some reason it always happens in the shower too.
I'm happy to say I haven't had an erection....yet.
chuck
same@thedefog.com2005-01-13
i don't know anybody's birthday. nobody ever tells me when
it's their birthday. I see all of these happy b-day messages,
and I never even knew kev's b-day. hahha. start sharing MFs.
chuck
admin@thedefog.com
http://www.thedefog.com
2005-01-13
Me too Jim, me too.
Bill
2005-01-09
I think of you often buddy.
Jim
jim@kevinjgoodwin.com2005-01-07
Last night, while stupidly drunk, I heard Cathy and Colleen
talk about Kev for hours. I couldn't join in, I knew I'd cry
and mess up the whole good-memory-feeling, but listening to
them was soothing in a way I can't explain. It's still a fresh
and painful hurt to me, to everyone, but he's still there when
we talk about him and still love him.
Corey
corey127@msn.com2005-01-07
i wish i had spoken to kevin more often. most of our exchanges
were just witty comments and he had such an awesome sense
of humor. i had these microwavable pizza squares the other day,
and i remember when i made them for him drunkenly one night,
then like a day later he had bought a box and was making
them at 7am as i headed out the door with a hangover. it was march,
the wind almost blew me over ...(trimmed)
gillian
2004-12-31
i miss you so much kevin. the memories we shared will be
the best gifts i could ever ask for. merry christmas kev
you are always in my thoughts.
Jolene
2004-12-27
Last Xmas I got Jim a record player and Kev came over as soon
as it arrived to find me surrounded by Styrofoam. He stood
for a minute in disbelief that I was ripping open the box,
but then joined in. Later it wouldn't go back together, but
he somehow managed to make it work. I didn't open any boxes
this year, just in case. Miss you Kev.
Cathy Toscano
ctoscano519@hotmail.com2004-12-16
I still check this site all the time. Reading the stories and
looking at the pictures still makes me smile, still makes me
cry
Bill
2004-12-14
kevin loved halloween. i think more than anyone i had ever
met. he was always so much more creative than i could ever
imagine to be in putting together costumes. i think my personal
favorite was his pimp outfit, all bought from goodwill.. though
the robot outfit was genious too - complete with a cooler for
beers! i love you kev.. you are with me always.
jolene
2004-10-30
I went to HS with Kevin. I didnt know him very well. We used
to goof off in class together sometimes. I remember he was
always happy and always had a smile on his face. I keep his
family and friends in my prayers. Im sorry for your loss.
Jaime Perro
jperro21@yahoo.com2004-10-18
Happy Birthday Kevin!! After school snacks aren't the same
without you!
Leann
2004-09-30
AHHH Happy Bday Kev!!! I love you!!!! even though you are fucking
disgusting!! haha.....yeah, that's what kevin wrote for me
my frosh year (but with Colleen where Kev is) and I was kinda
shocked until I heard Happy Bday Ralph by Atom and his Package,
check it out
Colleen
Ovrthefalls429@yahoo.com2004-09-29
Happy Birthday big guy, I'm drinkin a white russian for ya,
or two
Jim
jim@kevinjgoodwin.com2004-09-29
Happy Birthday Kevo! we'll have a drink to you...
Cathy
2004-09-29
happy birthday kid, we miss you
Bill
2004-09-29
Happy Birthday <3 xoxoxbitexoxoxo
Corey
2004-09-29
Happy Birthday Kevin, we all miss you so much... We'll have
a Yuengling for you!
Lauren & Hector
2004-09-29
i saw a movie last night that i know kevin would have loved.
its funny - i felt like he was watching it with me. its probably
crazy but every happy, funny, special time is when i remember
how much i love kevin even more.
Jolene
2004-09-28
this is an open invitation to everyone who still checks this
site the way i do: we need to all get together soon - i miss
you all. Kev, so many good new songs i've discovered these
days, wish we could grab a few beers and shoot the shit...
Bill
2004-09-25
I can't believe there is another Zelda game coming out and
I have to play it all on my own! Kevin, it's going to take
me years to beat without you!
LC
2004-09-23
next week it will be 4 years since the Busta Rhymes concert
- the beginning of Kev's semester on the couch. Damn I miss
those days.
Bill
2004-09-15
Five months and still just as hard...miss you
Cathy
2004-09-13
"In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's
the life in your years."
Jolene
jolenedelisle@hotmail.com2004-09-08
I miss him so much
Corey
2004-08-22
Chuck, I love listening to your song for Kevin
and looking at pictures. He would have loved it.
Jim Benson
jim@kevinjgoodwin.com
http://www.jamesbenson.com
2004-07-18
Anyone else up to snuff on videogames? Genius boy used to be
the insider for the insiders on the best games... All
the games i buy are crap these days. Man, yet another thing i
miss much. That, and the insanely funny musical stuff he would
find. The last time i talked to him, he sent me a song by Nickelback...
actually it was 2 songs. but one played in the left channel,
the other in the right.. An...(trimmed)
chuck
chuck@thedefog.com2004-07-14
summer's not the same without you kev.
Bill Pavlou
billpavlou@yahoo.com2004-07-09
Kevin was great. Although his passing was sad, I can't
help but smile, or laugh when I think of him. Kevin was
crazy, as most geniouses are. He had a good heart, and
no one could ever say they met someone like Kevin Goodwin.
I only wish he could've had his own TV show.
Steve Kozak
skozak@email.com2004-06-18
It seems like it should get easier, but it doesn't, everyone
seems to agree on that. Colleen is right though, he would want
us to be happy, and it's ok to be, because even though losing
Kev stole away a different part of each of us, he's still very
much alive in all of us and because of that will never be forgotten.
Cathy Toscano
ctoscano519@hotmail.com2004-06-18
I still feel the same and sometimes worse. I still love Kev
as much as I ever did and not being able to tell
him that is unbearable. Part of me died too. I think about him all
the time and miss him more than words can say.
Corey
2004-06-15
It feels like a part of me died along with Kev, but
I'm going to try to be happy because I know that's
what he would want, even though it will never be easy.
This is just so unreal.
Colleen Goodwin
ovrthefalls429@yahoo.com2004-06-15
anyone else still feel the same? They say it's supposed to
get easier... IM me if you ever want to talk. kermit230
on AIM.
chuck
2004-06-15
Yesterday marked 2 months since the accident. People say
it gets easier, I just think you find a way to live with
it because it doesn't get easier and I don't miss Kev any
less.
Bill Pavlou
billpavlou@yahoo.com2004-06-14
Kevin was one of my best friends back around 5th, 6th, 7th
grade or so- you know those years that really shape who you
become in the future- and I have so many good memories of
our friendship- laughing, playing original nintendo (so
classic), going on "Camp
College" trips together- I regret that we went our separate
ways by high school cuz it sounds like he always remained a
kid at heart with the ...(trimmed)
Pete Shungu
afrodzak19@yahoo.com2004-06-02
When I first heard of this horrible tragedy,
I could not bring myself to believe such a thing
was true. I worked with Kevin on the Rowan paintcrew
for a few years and in that short period of time
he left an everlasting impression. He will always
be missed for his wisecracks during the summer
paintcrew years!
Bill O'Brien
wobrien22@comcast.net2004-05-31
the last time i probably spoke with kevin was in 8th grade.
even then he was the silly, sweet kid with crazy hair
that you couldn't help but love :) my sincerest regards go out
to everyone that is grieving.
kristin lawson
lawson2@tcnj.edu
http://www.angelfire.com/nj/Kris99/new.html
2004-05-30
This is definitely a great site Jim.I can't help but smile
when i see his pictures and read the stories...my favorite
has to be ALL YOUR BASE ARE BELONG TO US! we miss you so much
kevin
Charlie Donat
ahhchacharlie@Hotmail.com2004-05-27
I barely knew Kevin but from what I knew of him was amazing.
I worked with him in the summers of 2002 and 2003 on
the Rowan Paint Crew. He always brought a smile to all of our faces
and made the day go by a lot faster, he was a great guy -
I'm going to miss him.
Nick Palatucci
MetalMilitia5150@aol.com2004-05-24
Hey guys, i just wanted everyone that donated money to
know that on behalf of Kevin's family (Colleen, Donna,
and Chris), they sent me a card thanking us for our donation
and kind words during everything. They wanted me to tell
everyone how much they appreciate it.
LC
laurc4@yahoo.com2004-05-23
I went to high school with Kevin and I can't say that I knew
him very well, but from what I remember about him
he was decent, kind, goofy and an intriguing person. It's
a shame that he was taken so soon, perhaps I could have
gotten to know him more. I give my sincere regards to his
family and friends.
Ellen Browne
ebrowne81@yahoo.com2004-05-18
i only met kevin once, but im real good friends with his
sister colleen.i remember the one time i met him how crazy
awesome he was and how much fun the 3 of us had.even though
i didnt know him well it hurs to know that i wont be able
to get to know him better.i think this is an awesome site
and you rock for putting it all together.
heather buck
smyles320@hotmail.com2004-05-17
people tell me its going to get easier as time goes on. instead
it seems, it gets harder, because it feels all too real
as days go by and i don't see kevin's beautiful smile or hear
his great stories. it is wonderful to read everyone's
thoughts about kevin because he was such a remarkable individual.
i miss him so much.
Jolene
butrfly062@aol.com2004-05-14
I had the pleasure of being at many parties with Kevin. The
first time I met him he told me his name was Kilty McBagpipe
and even though we were never friends, he's someone I could
never forget and Im really glad I had the opportunity to meet
him. He's was a really genuine person.
Aimee Mitchell
Aim234@aol.com2004-05-09
Kevin was truly awesome and I admire him for being who he was.
Jim, thanks so much for the website so we can all share & cherish
the memories we have of him.
Gillian Wells
gillian1510@netscape.net2004-05-09
Jim, the website is so great and I know that
Kevin loves it. I am so happy and grateful that
I had the chance to get to know such a person
as Kevin as well as everyone surrounding him.
Thank you all so much for that. I miss him everyday
and when I read all the stories and comments
from everyone on here, it helps me so much because
I just remember all the good times (even the
ones I wasn't there fo...(trimmed)
Leann Continere
Leannski44@aol.com2004-05-09
I first met Kevin last summer when Corey brought him home to
meet us. My first thought was, “WOW, he looks smart.” He
was smart and interesting and a very gentle person. Whenever
Kevin came over for dinner, he sure could eat a lot. The first
time he came over, he ate and ate and ate everything. I then
noticed him looking hungrily at the last piece of steak and
potatoes, so I sent him home with ...(trimmed)
Corey's mom- Pat
tish608@aol.com2004-05-08
Kevin was one of those people that even those
who met him once, will never forget. Jim the
site looks awesome, he would have loved it....we
miss you Kev
Cathy Toscano
ctoscano519@hotmail.com2004-05-07
Jim, Awesome job with the site. It is really nice to see what
others are thinking and share my own memories of all the
events that I was a part of with Kevin. The site is a great
homage and looks great. Very nice of you, and everyone.
Geoff Gelay
geoff@d229.com
http://www.d229.com
2004-05-05
Jim, nice job with everything. Let me know if there's anything
I can do to organize or add onto the site.
Jim's Ass Cousin
asscousin@thedefog.com
http://www.thedefog.com
2004-05-05
I only knew Kevin for a few months, but the time i got to know
him was interesting to say the least. Dinner
on sundays where he would eat enough to feed a small country,
the pennant getting shitty, candle wax on the turkey, weird
kid in the kitchen staring, and his 'bulge'... i'll never
forget the laughs. There was never a dull moment with kevin,
even in his silence, there was something funny goin...(trimmed)
Kasey Mason
kasey623@aol.com2004-05-04
This site is really sweet and so great and everything that
has been said is so nice and truly touching.... Kevin was
so unique and I always admired his ability to be himself and his
sense of humor too. Whether it be hanging with him, Cath,
and Andrew bowling as the "Super Monkeys," playing beer pong with
him, him wanting to put Doritos in the oven at my surprise party
because it would be "so cool...(trimmed)
Jessica Horowitz
Jely10@aol.com2004-05-03
I could only envy those who knew Kevin longer
than I have. Like him, I was also a quiet and
shy person. It was very comforting to know that
I can relate to a unique person like Kevin (and
his eclectic taste in music). His unselfish demeanor
and humble approach on life made him the easy
friend that anyone can love. Kevin was never
in the way, he was just there, by your side – especially
when you ne...(trimmed)
Thai Pham
me@typham.com2004-05-03
I'm Laura, Corey's roommate. Kevin was always
at the apartment. He was an awesome kid and this
website a real nice remembrance of him. I'll
never forget the time he molested me in the kitchen
thinking i was corey. It was so nice to know
him for the short time that I did.
Laura Nastasi
nastas7@aol.com2004-05-03
Hey Jim, the site looks wonderful, Kevin would have loved it.
Everyone who contributes/ed stories, thank you so much
for allowing all of us to see how he touched your lives and
to see more of him then we were able to. Love you all.
LC
I will never forget my freshman year when i first met
him. He made that a great year being his crazy self.
I'll always remember chanting "ALL YOUR BASE ARE BELONG TO US" at the upstairs
phi kap party with him.. while all the brothers sat there and
stared at all of us. I'm gonna miss you man, thank you for making
my freshman year a most memorable one. "here's a little
somethin for your earhole"...(trimmed)
Charlie Donat
ahhchacharlie@hotmail.com2004-05-02
Awesome job, Jim. I love what everyone wrote.
I agree with Jim, we are all so lucky to have
had him in our lives. Kev<3 xoxoBITExoxox
Corey Mason
core127m@aol.com2004-05-02
I've tried for the past few weeks to put my relationship with
Kevin into words and onto paper, and so far I can't.
I don't have the words to serve him justice. He was an
amazing kid - a college party buddy who somewhere along
the way became one of my better friends. Remember all the
good times with Kev, we all had so many - and those can
never be taken from us. We love you kid, and we miss you
so...(trimmed)
Bill Pavlou
billpavlou@yahoo.com2004-05-02
Kevin was my best friend. I miss him everyday. As much
as I hate that he was taked from us, I feel so blessed
to have had him be a part of my life.
Jim Benson
jim@kevinjgoodwin.com2004-04-28
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